Safaree Drops Shocking Videos as Child Support Drama With Erica Mena Spirals
The ongoing war between Safaree and Erica Mena, two names long familiar to reality TV fans, has spilled onto social media once again—and this time, it’s uglier than ever. In October 2024, Safaree put out a set of videos that, according to him, paint a pretty disturbing picture of their co-parenting relationship. The footage allegedly shows Erica Mena destroying property at Safaree’s home, and it doesn’t end there. One clip captures Mena climbing over a fence and pounding on windows at the crack of dawn, an act Safaree describes as home intrusion—all while the kids were present.
But the videos are just the tip of the iceberg. Safaree is now openly talking about the physical scars—both on his body and his mental health—that he claims came from their tumultuous time together. He’s shown a large cut on his forehead, allegedly the result of a confrontation with Mena. "I have to put myself first," he said, admitting he fears where all this could lead if things keep escalating. It’s not just his own safety that’s making headlines, though—he’s also accusing Mena of using their kids as pawns, claiming she only lets him see them when it suits her.
Claims, Counterclaims, and Emotional Fallout
The accusations from Safaree keep coming. He says he spent $2,000 on summer camp for their kids without first running it by Mena, and because of that, they barely attended. He even alleges Mena has sent him inappropriate pictures—images she then forwarded to his mother and sister to embarrass him. On top of that, he suggests she’s behind anonymous Instagram accounts that frequently target his family with harassing messages.
On the other side, Mena isn’t staying silent. She commented to TMZ with a tone mixing heartache and weary resolve. "I find myself in a state of deep astonishment and sorrow that our situation has deteriorated to this point," she said. Mena insists the children are her focus and that she wants the cycle of conflict to end—not just for her own peace, but for the well-being of their three young kids. She hasn’t only been on the defensive, though. In a since-deleted Instagram post, she claimed Safaree has barely shown up as a dad this year—counting only 16 visits with their children in all of 2024.
Their relationship certainly didn’t start this way. Safaree and Mena first crossed paths in 2017 on VH1’s reality series "Scared Famous." What started as a televised flirtation turned into engagement by the next year and marriage in 2019. Three kids and a lot of shared history later, things have landed in a tense, deeply public standoff with accusations—like child support neglect and abuse allegations—being traded back and forth as thousands look on.
So what’s next for this embattled family? Both Safaree and Mena say the kids are their top priority, but the fresh wounds and constant back-and-forth paint a picture far more tangled than any reality TV script. Hollywood divorces are messy, but this one, with video leaks and nasty claims, has hit a whole new level.